It's like this..
One minute you are having sex like a champion, representing all the women in your community 🙈...
Then the next minute you can't remember when last you had sex🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It seems this activity may have happened weeks ago🙆🏿♀️
OMG... it then dawns on you that you are not even having the urge to have sex despite thinking about it. You try to do a mental assessment of what usually turns you on. You come up completely blank.
You are confused now.
Then you panic, thinking whether long covid has a part to play. Or the last malaria or typhoid medication.
Or stress. They always say that stress has a way to impact on your libido.
But your gut tells you that this is the much talked about menopause signs and symptoms.
Then you relax
But does that mean I will not get my leg over again until I die😳. That's it?... I'm retired now from sex. Like all those elderly aunties I know? But I'm still full of energy.
Let me go and find out.
Then you arrive at this blog and realise you are not alone.
Then you try to hatch a plan to have regular sex, feelings or no feelings 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
1. Go for a complete health check including sexual health.
2. Consider doing the sex differently. What ever that means for you, do it.
3. Relax and enjoy.