Happy fathers and dads day…

Happy fathers day to all the fathers and dad’s out there. Millions of men around the world are being celebrated and recognised for a job well done.

You know we have pockets of fathers such as adoptive, biological, putative and step fathers etc . Then you have dads. It is also said that a dad may be your father, but your father may not be your dad. (Get it?).

This fathers day morning someone I know has just been informed that he is not the father to his children so he has been playing the role of dad all this time.

The finding out

When someone who is usually quiet, all of a sudden becomes verbal making statements such as ‘the world is a wicked place’… then you know something is not right. When I read his status this morning on whatsapp…. the first time I’ve ever seen his status… I thought someone had died…. I was not expecting this sort of news at all.